Betty J. Ruhland Obituary
It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Betty J. Ruhland of Stafford, New York, who passed away at the age of 72, on June 29, 2025. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Betty J. Ruhland to show support.
She was loved and cherished by many people including: her parents, Joseph Thomas and Helen Kulichik Thomas of Grand Island; her husband Thomas A. Ruhland; her children, Katie Tretter (Justin) of Cleveland and Thomas Steele (Shalyn Mapes) of Stafford; the father of her children Greg Steele; her stepdaughter Beth Henderson (TJ) of Stafford; her grandchildren, Adelyn, Jonas and Rylan Tretter; and her sisters, Jane Black (Butch) of Eugene and Mary Baun (John) of Buffalo.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made in Betty's memory to the Hope Haven Center, 16 Bank Street, 2nd Floor, Batavia, New York 14020 or online at https://www.rochesterregional.org.
