John R. Duffy Obituary
With solemn hearts, we announce the passing of John R. Duffy in San Jose, California, whose presence will be deeply missed, having departed on November 9, 2025 at the age of 92. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
He was predeceased by: his parents, Elizabeth A. Duffy (Berube) and Christopher G. Duffy; his former wife Barbara Duffy; his sister Elizabeth Dray; his brothers-in-law, Dick Dray and Jim Heddlesten; and his nephew Danny Dray.
He is survived by: his wife Barbara "BJ" Massey; his children, Anne Thompson (Jerry), Jim Duffy (Julianne), Bill Duffy (Debbie Mark), Bob Duffy (Christie) and Carol Harrington (Tim); his grandchildren, Tony Thompson (Tiffany), Julie Thompson, Brian Duffy (Ashly), Sean Duffy, Elisa Duffy, Emily Martinez (Jay), Ryan Duffy, Nathan Duffy (Silas Russ), Danny Harrington (Katie Bowman) and Ben Harrington; his great grandchildren, Kizzy Thompson, Teagun Thompson and Patrick Duffy; his sister Kathleen Heddlesten; and his nieces and nephews, Dennis Dray (Lily Irizarry), David Dray, Michelle Frazier, Michael Frazier and Chris Frazier (Kristen).
