Roger James Bender's obituary , Passed away on January 11, 2020 in San Jose, California

Roger James Bender

April 23, 1940 - January 11, 2020 (79 years old)

San Jose, California

Roger James Bender's obituary , Passed away on January 11, 2020 in San Jose, California

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Roger James Bender

April 23, 1940 - January 11, 2020 (79 years old)

San Jose, California

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Roger James Bender Obituary

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the death of Roger James Bender (San Jose, California), born in Mandan, North Dakota, who passed away on January 11, 2020, at the age of 79, leaving to mourn family and friends. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Joseph and Pauline; and his son Scott James (Ruth). He is survived by: his sister Marilyn; his children, Stephanie Bender and Jeff Bender (Deb); his grandchildren, Janie, Ian and Clare; his son Roger Miles; his grandchildren, Geoffrey, Christopher, Brenda Miles, Pamela Miles and Nancy Miles; and his great grandchild Blake.

In lieu of flowers make donations to Paralyzed Veterans of America.

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February 13, 2020

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“Roger Bender will be deeply missed.. As one of the contributors to his robust publishing priogram, and as a subscriber to his respected journal, as well as a purchaser of so many of the books he published in his long career,I enjoyed Rogerr's friendship and his guidance in exploring history. I am saddened by his passing, but his printed works live on in our libraries and in our memory. Frank Thayer, Ph.D.”


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January 21, 2020

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February 2, 2021

John Conway wrote a sympathy message

“Although in kindred businesses for many years I did not know Roger well but do remember his always kind and courteous demeaner whenever we met at the various trade shows over the years. Truly a gentleman and someone who made an immeasurable contribution to the preservation of military history and the hobby of collecting the artifacts associated with many countries and veterans of the conflicts. He never gave me the impression his work was about profit. One of a rare breed, may he rest in peace.”


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April 14, 2020

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“My deepest condolences to Mr. Bender's family and friends. It was never my fortune to have met Mr. Bender, however, did have the pleasure to speak with him on a number of occasions while ordering one of his books. We also communicated via email from time to time. I have been a devoted customer for nearly 40 years. Mr. Bender's contribution to history and the study of militaria will be greatly missed.”


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January 22, 2020

Stephen D Rohde wrote a sympathy message

“A sad day in the collecting world. I first met roger in 1962 when i came home from the navy, and he would go to the military shows with a small cigar box of items for sell or trade. We became fast friends. Roger, you will be missed by all, especially me. So long, “kiddo”. My sincere condolences to the family. Stephen d. Rohde”


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January 22, 2020

Stephen D Rohde wrote a sympathy message

“A sad day in the collecting world. I first met roger in 1962 when i came home from the navy, and we became fast friends. Roger, you will be missed by all, especially me. So long, “kiddo”. My sincere condolences to the family. Stephen d. Rohde”


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January 21, 2020

Darrell English wrote a sympathy message

“Sorry to hear of rogers passing have had the honor to know him and work with him on a few book projects. Darrell & mary english”


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January 19, 2020

Wim Bak wrote a sympathy message

“He will be missed!! I had some great time with him, talking about our hobby. All the best! Wim bak, the netherlands”


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January 19, 2020

Wim Bak wrote a sympathy message

“He will be missed....! Wim bak, the netherlands”


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