Gary Elder Obituary

It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Gary Elder (Temecula, California), who passed away at the age of 82, on February 23, 2026. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

In the soft embrace of remembrance, we recall the profound impact Gary had on those he encountered along his journey. Though Gary may have slipped beyond the veil of mortality, his essence lingers like a faint fragrance in the air, a lingering reminder of the beauty and complexity of the human experience.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
England Family Mortuary, Inc.

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March 15, 2026

Candace Moulton wrote a sympathy message

“My big brother Gary was my hero. I'm missing him so much. From protecting me from a bully at the Shadow Mountain Club to protecting our nation and his heroic deeds, saving his fellow soldiers. He loved golf, laughing and jabbing.. so full of it! He's a very good man. I'm looking forward to seeing him in heaven.”

March 2, 2026

Scott Woodard wrote a sympathy message

“GARY was always a tremendous person, veteran and businessman. He always was willing to make you laugh and laugh with you. His service to our country and his friendship will be appreciated and missed. He was a dear friend and cared about people close to him. It has been an honor to know him, and to share many memories.”

February 28, 2026

Danielle A wrote a sympathy message

“Sending love to Gary’s family. Gary served in the Marine Corps during Vietnam and later gave back through Toys for Tots and families at Camp Pendleton — that meant a lot to him. He was funny, kind, and always brought great energy into a room. I’m grateful for the memories and the smiles. A donation has been made in his honor. Love ya big guy, RIP. ❤️ Semper Fi, Gary 🤍”