Cary Brenner's obituary , Passed away on September 18, 2025 in Danbury, Connecticut
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Cary Brenner

September 5, 1956 - September 18, 2025 (69 years old)

Danbury, Connecticut

Cary Brenner's obituary , Passed away on September 18, 2025 in Danbury, Connecticut
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Cary Brenner

September 5, 1956 - September 18, 2025 (69 years old)

Danbury, Connecticut

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Cary Brenner Obituary

We bid farewell to Cary Brenner of Danbury, Connecticut, whose journey of life gracefully concluded on September 18, 2025 at the age of 69. Cary touched countless lives with warmth and kindness, leaving behind cherished memories that will forever echo in hearts. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Cary Brenner to pay them a last tribute.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Marvin Brenner and Selma Brenner (Sobel). He is survived by: his wife Debbie; his children, Cal Phalen (Lindsey), Emily Brenner (Alex Hayowyk), Molly Brenner, Natalee Brenner and Aimee Brenner; his siblings, Mitchell Brenner (Bonnie) and Susan Anderheggen (Chris); and his nieces and nephews, Dori Coffey (Jacob), Casey Brenner and Sarah Denn.

In lieu of flowers please consider donations in Cary's memory to DAWS, http://www.daws.org, an organization very dear to his heart.

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September 22, 2025

Lisa Tepper wrote a sympathy message

“In loving memory of Cary Brenner. I am so very sorry for your loss. I met Dr. Brenner when he was at New Street AH about 30 years ago. I even followed him to VCA Northside AH. He was such a wonderful vet; he would do anything for the animals. My kids even went to drama camp with his kids many years ago. May his memory be a blessing and help to comfort you in the coming months. With deepest sympathies. Lisa Tepper”

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