Mary Vela Obituary

With solemn reverence, we commemorate Mary Vela of Groton, Connecticut, whose life came to an end on April 10, 2026 at the age of 73, leaving behind cherished memories. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

In the echoes of fond remembrance, may a sense of peace be found, knowing that the memories held dear will continue to shape and inspire her loved ones, keeping Mary's spirit alive in the hearts and actions of family and friends alike. While her presence may be gone, her impact lives on in the kindness shown to others and the joy found in the ordinary moments of life.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Mary Gilchrist and John Gilchrist; and her sister Catherine Cole. She is survived by: her daughters, Jessica Purdon (Mark Purdon) and Jackie Marden (Dave Marden); her grandchildren, Catherine Hodge, Ryan Marden and Lucy Marden; and her siblings, John Gilchrist and Peggy Flynn. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Beacon Hospice Care, Mystic, CT 06355.