Gary D. Pender Obituary
With profound sadness, we say goodbye to Gary D. Pender in Hartford, Connecticut, whose vibrant spirit touched the lives of many. Gary left this world on May 8, 2026 at the age of 71, leaving a void in the lives of so many people. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Gary D. Pender to show support.
He was predeceased by: his parents, Harry Sr. Pender and Phyllis Pender (Marenna); his close friend Diana Nacca; his brothers, Phil Pender Sr. and Daniel Pender Sr.; and his niece Selena Pender.
He is survived by: his daughter Jodie Mesite; his grandchildren, Damon Mesite of Wallingford, Cameron Mesite of Wallingford and Madison Hauge (Jake Hauge) of Wallingford; his great grandchildren, Kyle and Bryson Hauge; and his siblings, Harry Pender, Thomas Pender, Tammy Olsen and Wendy Liseo. He is also survived by his family, friends.
