Mary A. Pandolfe Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Mary A. Pandolfe of Middletown, Connecticut, who passed away on February 14, 2026 at the age of 106. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
She was predeceased by: her husband Ralph L. Pandolfe, Sr.; her father Pasquale LaCava; her son Robert Pandolfe; and her grandchildren, Anthony, Michael Pandolfe, Julie Allen Lanati and James J. "Jay" Allen IV.
She is survived by: her mother Carmela LaCava (Laraia); her children, Francesca Johnston (Robert), Patricia Pandolfe, Gloria Allen and Ralph Pandolfe, Jr.; her grandchildren, Robert Pandolfe, Jr., Nathan Lanati (Emma), Aaron Lanati (Loren), Justin Lanati and Joy Allen; her great grandchildren, John Brayden (JB), Jewelle Rihanne and Jianna Rose; her stepgrandson Christopher Robert Johnston; her children-in-law, Linda Pandolfe and James J. Allen III; and her siblings, Rose Cancelmo (Joseph), Eleanor D'Esopo (Michael), Antoinette Cicalese (Anthony), Anna Murasso (Nicholas), Francesca Dammiller (Richard), Dominck (Annette), Rocco (Dolores), Jerry (Victoria) and Baby Pasquale LaCava.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Richard M. Keane Foundation, PO Box 290742, Wethersfield, CT 06129-0742 or the Moffitt Cancer Center, 12902 USF Magnolia Drive, Tampa, FL 33612.
