It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved John J. Messer of West Hartford, Connecticut, who passed away, on December 10, 2023. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of John J. Messer to show support.

He was predeceased by : his father Dr. Edward Messer (Anne); his siblings, Barbara Hugo (William), SJ and Charles Messer; and also Peggy Messer.

He is survived by : his wife Janice; his daughters, Stephanie Perl and Julie Messer; his son-in-law Adam Perl; his grandchildren, Ethan, Isabella Perl, William and Matthew Roby; and his brothers, Edward, Richard (Ann) and Robert (Janice). He is also survived by nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to the American Cancer Society or, Tunnel to Towers Foundation.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Molloy Funeral Home

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December 16, 2023

Mary Beth & Len Havens lit a candle

“JANICE, STEPHANIE ,& JULIE.... JOHN WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED IN YOUR HEARTS, OUR HEARTS, THE HEARTS OF HIS ENTIRE CIRCLE OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS, AN ADORING HUSBAND, SUPPORTIVE LOVING FATHER, AND INCREDIBLE GRANDFATHER. JOHN LEAVES ALL OF US THE MEMORY OF HIS TWINKLING EYES AND UNMISTAKABLE LAUGH.”