Shirley Diefenderfer Obituary
The family of Shirley Diefenderfer of Laurel, Delaware announces her passing on October 17, 2026. Shirley, born on June 13, 1934, is remembered by family, friends, and others who shared time and connection. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of Shirley Diefenderfer or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.
She was predeceased by: her parents, James Henry and Jennie Lellage Pike; and her siblings, James Pike, Evelyn Hearn and Anna Hope.
She is survived by: her daughters, Gloria Larese-Casanova of Annapolis, MD and Joy Slavens (Thomas) of Laurel, DE; her grandchildren, Jennifer Smith (Brad) of San Marcos, CA, Amy Willmarth of Crofton, MD, Christopher Slavens (Crystal) of Laurel, DE and Scott Slavens (Katie) of Oxford, PA; her great grandchildren, Charles Willmarth, Hudson Smith and Madeline Smith; and her great-niece Dawn Pritchett of Laurel, DE..
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, October 21st 2026 from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM at the Centenary United Methodist Church (200 W Market St, Laurel, DE 19956). A funeral service will be held on Wednesday, October 21st 2026 at 11:00 AM at the same location. A burial will be held on Wednesday, October 21st 2026 at 3:00 PM at the White Marsh Cemetery.
