Gary Joseph Stahm Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Gary Joseph Stahm of Lewes, Delaware, who passed away on April 10, 2026 at the age of 79. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
He was predeceased by: his parents, Anna Theresa (Carnaggio) and Lloyd Henry Stahm; his brother Robert Stahm; and his nephew Brian Balcer. He is survived by: his wife Betty J. Pilachowski; his children, Todd Stahm (Lelia), Kimberly Chartier (Rick), Shannon Hagan and Gary R. Stahm (Kristine); his grandchildren, Mason, Nathan, Cole, Andrew, Lucas, Michael, Carson, Elijah and Kace; and his in-laws, Donna, Charles Balcer, Lou and Dawn Pilachowski. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and great-nephews.
In lieu of flowers and plants, please make a donation to the Baltimore Retired Police Benevolent Association Distress Fund in Gary's honor: BRPBA Distress Fund, c/o Kathy Conrad, P.O. Box 935, Bel Air, MD 21014.
April 14, 2026
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