With heavy hearts, we announce the death of John Desmond McCarthy of Flowery Branch, Georgia, born in Atlanta, Georgia, who passed away on November 30, 2023 at the age of 65. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

He was predeceased by : his father Richard Desmond McCarthy. He is survived by : his mother Dorothy Lee Miller McCarthy of Dunwoody; his wife Trena; his daughters, LilaLee and Macon; his sister Megan McCarthy (Ed Lieber) of Larchmont; his stepsiblings, Cannon Stoffel (Jay) and William Simpson of Winston-Salem; his niece Caroline Solano (Ariel); his nephew Matthew Scarpa (Madeline); and his great-niece Elizabeth Scarpa of Larchmont.

In lieu of flowers or other memorials, a college scholarship fund has been created for LilaLee and Macon.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Flanigan Funeral Home & Crematory

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December 5, 2023

Kelly Spetalnick wrote a sympathy message

“John has a big footprint in this world full of fun and laughter and love for his friends and family. He will always be in our hearts. We send our deepest sympathies to everyone in his family. With love - Kelly and Tom Spetalnick”

December 3, 2023

Eric Brown wrote a sympathy message

“My family sends our deepest sympathies to all of John’s family and friends. His ability to bring people together and create connections and friendships was a gift I’m really grateful to have experienced. John was my captain and friend, myself and many others will truly miss this wonderful man.”

December 3, 2023

Cathy Freeman wrote a sympathy message

“John was a friend, competitor, a compassionate human being He was quick to offer support during our recent health issues. He will be missed on the race course and at gatherings at the docks. Jeff and I offer our deepest sympathies to Trena and the girls. Cathy and Jeff Freeman”

December 3, 2023

Jeff Belk wrote a sympathy message

“My family and I send our deepest condolences to John’s family. I am so saddened to hear this news. John made a huge impact on my life when he agreed to hire me over 30 years ago and agreed to mentor me. We became good friends and had a blast playing basketball which was always followed by a few beers. He was such a good guy. Funny, smart, and he loved to have a good time. He was taken much too young. Our prayers go to Trena, the girls, and Dottie Lee. John will be deeply missed.”