Jay Winder Obituary

We announce the death of Jay Winder (Des Plaines, Illinois), who passed away on August 29, 2026, at the age of 55. Jay will be remembered by family members, friends, and others whose lives were connected in meaningful ways. Family and friends can send flowers and condolences in memory of the loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Jay Winder to pay them a last tribute.

Jay will be remembered for the impact he had on the lives of those around him. Friends, family, and colleagues will cherish their memories and the time shared. Those who knew Jay will remember moments of kindness, warmth, and presence. Though words cannot fully capture his life, the legacy of connections and experiences remains. Jay’s absence will be deeply felt by those who valued his companionship.

He is survived by: his wife Mary Winder; and his children, Drew Winder, Tristan Winder (Paulina) and Kyra Winder.

Visitation was held on Thursday, September 3rd 2026 from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at the Oehler Funeral Home (2099 Miner St, Des Plaines, IL 60016). A burial was held on Friday, September 4th 2026 at 10:00 AM at the St. Mary Church (794 Pearson St, Des Plaines, IL 60016).