Jay Winder's obituary , Passed away on August 29, 2026 in Des Plaines, Illinois
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Jay Winder

March 17, 1971 - August 29, 2026 (55 years old)

Des Plaines, Illinois

Jay Winder's obituary , Passed away on August 29, 2026 in Des Plaines, Illinois
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Jay Winder

March 17, 1971 - August 29, 2026 (55 years old)

Des Plaines, Illinois

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Jay Winder Obituary

We announce the death of Jay Winder (Des Plaines, Illinois), who passed away on August 29, 2026, at the age of 55. Jay will be remembered by family members, friends, and others whose lives were connected in meaningful ways. Family and friends can send flowers and condolences in memory of the loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Jay Winder to pay them a last tribute.

Jay will be remembered for the impact he had on the lives of those around him. Friends, family, and colleagues will cherish their memories and the time shared. Those who knew Jay will remember moments of kindness, warmth, and presence. Though words cannot fully capture his life, the legacy of connections and experiences remains. Jay’s absence will be deeply felt by those who valued his companionship.

He is survived by: his wife Mary Winder; and his children, Drew Winder, Tristan Winder (Paulina) and Kyra Winder.

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September 1, 2026

Dan Nelson wrote a sympathy message

“Mary and Family: I am so deeply sorry to learn about the loss of your beloved Jay. He was such an awesome guy! You both were so kind, thoughtful and generous to me during some of the toughest and darkest days of my life! I think about you and Jay often and I always thought I’d see you both again soon (it’s been 16 years). Please know what a great friend I considered Jay. He was the best! My life is better because I knew him. My prayers are with you and your family.”

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Sep 03

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Oehler Funeral Home
2099 Miner St, Des Plaines, IL 60016

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Sep 04

Burial

St. Mary Church
794 Pearson St, Des Plaines, IL 60016

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