Shirley Lee Oder Obituary
With solemn hearts, we announce the passing of Shirley Lee Oder of Joliet, Illinois, born in Fremont, Michigan, whose presence will be deeply missed, having departed on July 29, 2025. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Shirley Lee Oder to pay them a last tribute.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Lawrence H. Charles, Jr. and Goldie O'Connor; her husband Ernst F. Oder, Jr.; her sister Sharie O'Connor; her grandchildren, Alex, Aaron, Taylor and Kelly Costello; her son-in-law James McCallister; and her niece Debra Treon.
She is survived by: her children, Jane Costello (Alan) of Joliet, Emilie McCallister (James) of Frankfort, E. Stephen Oder (Cindy) of Rincon, GA and Alan Oder of Joliet; her grandchildren, Robert Oder, Michael Oder, Danielle Waters and Brian Waters (Melissa); her great grandchildren, Isayah, Emryk and Clementine Waters; and her sisters, Jean Dixon and Sandra Treon. She is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, memorials in her name to Messiah Lutheran Church (https://messiahlutheranchurch.churchcenter.com.) or Lightways Hospice (http://www.lightways.org.) would be appreciated. For more information, please call (815) 741-5500 or visit his Memorial Tribute at http://www.fredcdames.com where you can share a favorite memory or leave a condolence.
