We are sad to announce that on June 12, 2023 we had to say goodbye to Donitra Lynn Gray of Pendleton, Indiana, born in Mount Vernon, Ohio. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

She was predeceased by : her son Ian Gavin Messer; her sister Christina Tomlin; and her mother-in-law Carol Gray. She is survived by : her husband Jason; her parents, Darrell and Phyllis (Thompson); her children, Torrin Messer (Felicia Balderrama) of Indianapolis, Collin Messer (Brandon Clevenger) of Anderson, Jason Gray of Anderson, Jacob Gray of Anderson, Kierstin Messer (Jace Longere) of Carmel and Alivia Gray of Pendleton; her siblings, Steven Tomlin of Shelbyville and Wendy Tomlin of Connersville; her sister-in-law Staci Gray-Allen (Adam Allen); her nieces and nephews, Hudson of Lafayette and Finley Allen of Lafayette; and her close friend Heaven Conner.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks for all memorial contributions in Donitra's name to be gifted to the Pendleton Friends for Paws. (https://www.paypal.com).

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Wilson St Pierre Funeral Services

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June 14, 2023

Love, Brittney Dowden (Horton) sent flowers

“In loving memory of Donitra Lynn Gray, May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you. I am so sorry for your loss. She loved each of you so so much. She was such a light!”

June 25, 2023

Bear Bear wrote a sympathy message

“I will miss you cuz .I wish I could have seen you more .You are one of the most Beautifuliest souls I've ever had the pleasure to know and love .I Rember when your mother had you .How time flys but this is not good bye ..I will see you in Heaven ,untail then ..I love you and will miss you on this earth...Condolences to all the family ..love you all ...Michelle Carter .”