Shirley Rae Sterbens's obituary , Passed away on October 15, 2025 in Wichita, Kansas

Shirley Rae Sterbens

October 15, 2025

Wichita, Kansas

Shirley Rae Sterbens's obituary , Passed away on October 15, 2025 in Wichita, Kansas

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Downing & Lahey Mortuary

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Shirley Rae Sterbens Obituary

With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Shirley Rae Sterbens (Wichita, Kansas), who passed away on October 15, 2025. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Shirley Rae Sterbens to pay them a last tribute.

In the vast expanse of eternity, Shirley shall find rest, cradled in the arms of everlasting peace. And as we bid Shirley farewell, her loved ones carry with them the precious gift of her memory, a beacon of hope guiding them through the shadows of sorrow towards the light of a new dawn.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Alvin Dragoo and Pearl Dragoo. She is survived by: her husband Bob Sterbens; her children, Kara Tidemann (Ryan) and Scott Sterbens (Savannah); her grandchildren, Blake and Claire Tidemann; and her brother John Dragoo (Judy).

A funeral service will be held on Monday, October 27th 2025 at 10:00 AM at the Downing & Lahey West Mortuary (10515 W Maple St, Wichita, KS 67209). A graveside service will be held on Monday, October 27th 2025 at 2:30 PM at the Bucklin Cemetery.

A memorial has been established with: The KIDS Network, Inc., 300 West Douglas, Suite 145, Wichita, Kansas 67202. The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Shirley Rae Sterbens 's name.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Downing & Lahey Mortuary



Mon

Oct 27

Funeral service

10:00 AM

Downing & Lahey West Mortuary
10515 W Maple St, Wichita, KS 67209

Mon

Oct 27

Graveside service

2:30 PM

Bucklin Cemetery

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