Debra Ann Lay Abner's obituary , Passed away on December 31, 2025 in Totz, Kentucky

Debra Ann Lay Abner

August 7, 1957 - December 31, 2025 (68 years old)

Totz, Kentucky

Debra Ann Lay Abner's obituary , Passed away on December 31, 2025 in Totz, Kentucky

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Harlan Funeral Home

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Debra Ann Lay Abner

August 7, 1957 - December 31, 2025 (68 years old)

Totz, Kentucky

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Debra Ann Lay Abner Obituary

It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Debra Ann Lay Abner of Totz, Kentucky, who passed away on December 31, 2025, at the age of 68, leaving to mourn family and friends. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

As we bid farewell to this cherished soul, solace is taken in the memories held dear — the laughter shared, the wisdom imparted, the moments of quiet reflection in their presence. Though Debra Ann may no longer walk among us, her spirit lives on in the echoes of her kindness, the warmth of her embrace, and the light of her enduring love.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Eugene Lay and Anna Stewart Lay; her daughter Candice Abner Brackett; and her brother Michael Lay. She is survived by: her husband Randy Abner of Wallins Creek; her son Chris Abner (Amy) of Leatherwood, KY; her sisters, Cheryl Lay (Larry Tippett) of Cumberland and Kathy Fox of Putney, KY; and her pets, Sammie and Annie. She is also survived by other family members and friends.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Harlan Funeral Home



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496 Holly St, Benham, KY 40807

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