Matthew Francis Gaffney Obituary

Matt loved his children above anybody or anything else in his life. He was happiest spending time with them, reading to them and also reading the books that interested them, and having long talks with them. He considered them the best kids in the world.

As often as he could, Matt would make chili and omelettes for his family, the chili a staple for football games and the most amazing omelettes to fuel them for the weekend. A true Marylander, Matt would season everything else he made with a healthy helping of Old Bay.

He was a man whose life was enriched by words. Literature, especially poetry and a well-worn book, was his treasured companion. He believed that the written word could comfort, challenge and inspire, and he found joy in sharing favorite passages and thoughtful conversations with like-minded relatives and friends.

Conversations with Matt were always sprinkled with his impeccable comedic timing. He had a gift for delivering the perfect remark at just the right moment.

Another of his great loves was Nature. He found peace outdoors, especially when watching birds of prey soaring effortlessly overhead. These magnificent creatures captured his imagination for their strength and grace.

Whether casting a fishing line into quiet waters, savoring a well-crafted IPA - or proudly sharing one he had brewed himself - he believed the best experiences were meant to be shared. He possessed a remarkable ability to listen carefully and intently and to speak thoughtfully.

Though his voice is now quiet, his stories and his laughter will continue to echo in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Matt is the beloved father of Jessie Francis Meyrick, Keira Mairead Gaffney, James Fergus Gaffney, Niamh Aine Gaffney, and Nora Rose Gaffney; son of Joseph John Gaffney, Sr. and Marguerite Teresa Canavan Gaffney; dear brother of Maura Gaffney, Erika Gaffney and her husband Ken Viglucci, Joseph John Gaffney, Jr., and his wife Michelle Gaffney, and Teresa Gaffney; cherished uncle of Cara Viglucci, Kate Gaffney, and V Gaffney. Matt is also survived by his former wife Alana Gaffney and her parents Sue and PJ Fitzgerald along with scores of cousins and other loving family and friends.

Relatives and friends are invited to gather at the Lemmon Funeral Home of Dulaney Valley, Inc., 10 W. Padonia Road, Timonium, Maryland 21093, on Saturday August 22, 2026 for a Memorial Gathering from 2:00-5:00pm.

Interment will be private.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Patuxent Research Refuge at https://friendsofpatuxent.org.