Shirley Ellen (Von Derau) Arther Obituary

The passing of Shirley Ellen (Von Derau) Arther (Ballwin, Missouri) occurred on June 25, 2026. Shirley, born on September 5, 1931 in Saint Louis, Missouri, shared life with family, friends, and community. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

Shirley touched many lives and will be remembered fondly for the moments shared and the memories created. Family, friends, and colleagues extend their love and support during this time. While Shirley’s presence will be missed, the influence she had on others will remain. Those who knew her will carry forward memories that reflect her character and spirit.

She was predeceased by: her husband Donald E. Arther. She is survived by: her children, John Neff and Henriette Burns; her granddaughter Kelly Burns; her nephew Christopher Von Derau; and her niece Susan Von Derau. She is also survived by many extended family members, friends.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in honor of Shirley may be made to a charity of your choice.