Virginia Wilder Obituary
With sadness, we share the passing of Virginia Wilder of Neosho, Missouri. Virginia, born on November 8, 1957, passed away on August 1, 2026. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Virginia Wilder to pay them a last tribute.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Gladys Louise Spencer and James Rodney Neal Sr.; her stepfather Virgil Spencer; her siblings, James Rodney Neal Jr., Michael Eugene Neal, Kenneth Leroy Neal and Karen Louise DePung; and her nephew Jeremy Owen Neal Sr..
She is survived by: her husband Gary "Herk" Eldon Wilder of Neosho; her sons, Jason Michael Weisshaar of Springfield and Seth Adam Wilder (Janel) of Neosho, Missouri.; her grandchildren, Jeremy Owen Neal Jr. (Madison) of Olathe, Kansas, Jordin Wesley Neal of Olathe, Kansas, Layla Dyan Marsh of Olathe, Kansas, Alicia Lane (Ryan) of Nixa, Missouri, Anthony Watson of Nixa, Missouri, Mick Rhys Wilder of Neosho, Missouri, Camille Claire Wilder of Neosho, Missouri and Nash Barrett Wilder of Neosho, Missouri; her great grandchildren, Adalyn Rose Lane, Arya Kaye Lane of Nixa, Missouri. and Riley Owen Neal; and her daughters-in-law, Jennifer Moppin of Olathe and Cassandra Neal of Olathe. She is also survived by nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to Solace House in Joplin, Missouri, in honor of Jenna.
