Rufus Lee Milam Obituary

The memory of Rufus Lee Milam of Jacksonville, North Carolina, who passed away on August 23, 2025 at the age of 84, will forever remain in the hearts of those touched by this precious presence in their lives. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Rufus Milam and Mary Milam; and his wife Phyllis Barker Milam. He is survived by: his daughters, Debbie Brinson (Michael) of Chinquapin, Pamela Dixon of Jacksonville, Judy Graham (Scott) of Timberlake, Glenda Milam of Jacksonville and Jennifer Milam of Swansboro; his granddaughter Jane Coltabaugh; his son Michael Milam (Electa) of Richlands; his grandchildren, Chrystal Brinson, Amanda Brinson Dempsey, Jonathan Dixon, Alex Milam, Jake Milam, Caleb Graham, Lily Brannon and Emily Long; and his great grandchildren, Moriah Dixon, Colton Dempsey and Peter Graham.