James Stephen DeMay's obituary , Passed away on December 20, 2025 in Knightdale, North Carolina

James Stephen DeMay

April 4, 1954 - December 20, 2025 (71 years old)

Knightdale, North Carolina

James Stephen DeMay's obituary , Passed away on December 20, 2025 in Knightdale, North Carolina

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L. Harold Poole Funeral Service & Crematory

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James Stephen DeMay

April 4, 1954 - December 20, 2025 (71 years old)

Knightdale, North Carolina

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James Stephen DeMay Obituary

The passing of James Stephen DeMay of Knightdale, North Carolina leaves a void in the hearts of many, as we bid farewell to a loving soul who departed on December 20, 2025 at the age of 71. Family and friends can send flowers and/or light a candle as a loving gesture for their loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of James Stephen DeMay to show support.

He was predeceased by: his father Thomas DeMay; and his brothers, Patrick and Thomas, Jr.. He is survived by: his wife Kathy; his children, Thomas, Henry and Mary Scott (Bond); his mother Reenie DeMay; and his siblings, Timothy DeMay (Robin), Michael DeMay (Susan), Laurie Melfi, Mary Beth Nieves (George), Anne Michniuk (David) and Susan Harvard (Jason). He is also survived by nieces and nephews.

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L. Harold Poole Funeral Service & Crematory



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Jan 01

Visitation

L. Harold Poole Funeral Service & Crematory
944 Old Knight Rd, Knightdale, NC 27545

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Jan 02

Funeral Mass

St. Eugene's Roman Catholic Church
608 Lions Club Rd, Wendell, NC 27591

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