Helen L. Hayes Obituary
We bid farewell to Helen L. Hayes of Lincoln, Nebraska, whose journey of life gracefully concluded on September 25, 2025 at the age of 99. Helen touched countless lives with warmth and kindness, leaving behind cherished memories that will forever echo in hearts. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Helen L. Hayes to pay them a last tribute.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Arnold Refshauge and Henrietta Refshauge; her husband Dr. O. R. Hayes (Bob); her sisters, Marie Jacobs, Ilene Gotobed and Bonnie Crown; and her son Robert David Hayes.
She is survived by: her great grandchild Karen Ragsdale (John) of Westminster, CO; her grandchildren, Jim Hayes (Connie) of Palm City, FL, Bill Hayes (Stacy) of Highlands Ranch, CO, Janet Hayes of Lincoln, NE, Ashley Ragsdale, Erin Sparks and Lindsay Ragsdale; her great grandchildren, Amy, Michael, Eric Hayes, Katie Huey (Zach), Lauren Roybal (Mike), Austin Hayes, Steve Hayes (Taylor), Summer Hayes (Zach Tanner), Rylie and Parker Roybal; and her grandchildren, Roy, Reggie Tanner, Hendrix and Jett Hayes. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews and dear friends.
A funeral service will be held on Thursday, October 2nd 2025 at 11:00 AM and at 12:00 PM.
She was member and past president of PEO Chapter CS and the Lancaster County Medical Auxiliary, served as co-chairman of Governor Kay Orr's Inaugural Committee, and was named a "Woman of the Year" by the Nebraska Arthritis Foundation.