Nicholas Michael Bender

December 29, 1992 - October 23, 2025 (32 years old)

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December 29, 1992 - October 23, 2025 (32 years old)

Bow, New Hampshire

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Nicholas Michael Bender Obituary

Name: Memorial service
Start: 2025-11-04T23:30:00
End: 2025-11-04T23:30:00
Location: Solid Rock Baptist Church

With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Nicholas Michael Bender of Bow, New Hampshire, who passed away on October 23, 2025 at the age of 32. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

As we bid adieu to Nicholas' earthly form, let us not dwell on the void left in his wake, but rather celebrate the legacy of love and inspiration Nicholas has bequeathed us. For though he may have departed from our sight, his spirit remains a timeless beacon, guiding loved ones through the labyrinth of life's journey.

He is survived by: his parents, Michael Bender (Marie Bender) and Diane Bender (Odom) of Blackwood, NJ; his wife Rebecca of Bow, NH; his sister Sarah Bender (Muthu Sivasankaran); and his nephew Romelo Draper. He is also survived by aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

A memorial service was held on Tuesday, November 4th 2025 at 6:30 PM at the Solid Rock Baptist Church (420 S White Horse Pike, Berlin, NJ 08009). A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, November 8th 2025 at 5:30 PM at the Granite State Baptist Church (236 Sheep Davis Rd, Concord, NH 03301).

Memorial donations may be made to Edward J. Madden Open Hearts Camp, 250 Monument Valley Road, Great Barrington, MA 01230.

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Nov 04

Memorial service

Solid Rock Baptist Church
420 S White Horse Pike, Berlin, NJ 08009

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Nov 08

Celebration of life

5:30 PM

Granite State Baptist Church
236 Sheep Davis Rd, Concord, NH 03301

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“Our thoughts and prayers go out to Rebecca and his family and close friends. In honor of nick and his good faithful fight, 2 Timothy 4:7-8., I have fought the good fight, I have finished my course. I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, shall me give at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his Appearing. Hugs and God bless you all., Shan and Dan.”

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