Lauri Rubner Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Lauri Rubner of Merrimack, New Hampshire, who passed away on October 31, 2025 at the age of 67. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
As Lauri departs from this earthly realm, her essence lingers — a whisper on the wind, a ripple on the water — a testament to the enduring power of love to transcend the boundaries of life and death. Though Lauri may no longer walk beside us, her spirit lives on in the memories and the legacy Lauri leaves behind.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Carson Sr. Graves and Beverly Graves (Thayer). She is survived by: her son Patrick O'Brien (Kurt Eddy); her boyfriend Gregory Doppstadt; and her brothers, Gary Graves, Carson Graves Jr. (Raylene), Doug Graves (Mary) and John Graves (Lorrie). She is also survived by many nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Lauri's memory may be made to Compassionate Care ALS (ccals.org) or a charity of one's choice.
