Thomas F. Ruffen Jr.

September 11, 1957 - July 9, 2025 (67 years old)

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September 11, 1957 - July 9, 2025 (67 years old)

Salem, New Hampshire

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Thomas F. Ruffen Jr. Obituary

Name: Visitation
Start: 2025-07-16T20:00:00
End: 2025-07-16T22:30:00
Location: Carrier Family Funeral Home

With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Thomas F. Ruffen Jr. of Salem, New Hampshire, who passed away on July 9, 2025 at the age of 67. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Thomas F. Ruffen Jr. to pay them a last tribute.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Thomas Ruffen and Mary Louise Ruffen (Roberge). He is survived by: his wife Karen Ruffen (Parkman) of Salem, NH; his son Trevor Ruffen of Salem, NH.; and his siblings, Susan, Tom Desmet of Wells, David, Cheryl Ruffen of Salem, NH, Mary Jo and Floyd Driggers of Salem, NH.. He is also survived by several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Visitation was held on Wednesday, July 16th 2025 from 4:00 PM to 6:30 PM at the Carrier Family Funeral Home (38 Range Rd, Windham, NH 03087). A funeral service was held on Wednesday, July 16th 2025 at 6:30 PM at the same location.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Healy Center for ALS at Mass General in honor of Tom Ruffen: https://giving.massgeneral.org.

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Carrier Family Funeral Home
38 Range Rd, Windham, NH 03087

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38 Range Rd, Windham, NH 03087

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“Tom always had a welcoming smile along with a genuine kind, humble demeanor. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.”

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