Tom Hilmy Obituary
Tom Hilmy of Hazlet, New Jersey passed away on September 21, 2026. Tom, born on February 28, 1951, shared life alongside family, friends, and others. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of Tom Hilmy or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.
Tom will be remembered for the impact he had on the lives of those around him. Friends, family, and colleagues will cherish their memories and the time shared. Those who knew Tom will remember moments of kindness, warmth, and presence. Though words cannot fully capture his life, the legacy of connections and experiences remains. Tom’s absence will be deeply felt by those who valued his companionship.
He was predeceased by: his parents, Moch Nawawi and Ningsih Nawawi; and his wife Diane. He is survived by: his children, Kevin Gonzalez of Keansburg, Tannya Hilmy of Morganville, Mettie Hilmy of Hazlet and Lisa (Michael Pillarella); and his siblings, Itje Rachmiati, Dedet Rasidi Anwar, Dadan Saefulhaq Nawawi and Akhmad Jaya Budhi. He is also survived by ten grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren.
A memorial gathering will be held on Saturday, September 26th 2026 from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM at the Jacqueline M Ryan Home For Funerals, Inc. (233 Carr Ave, Keansburg, NJ 07734).
