Benay Cheryl Irwin Obituary
With sadness, we share the passing of Benay Cheryl Irwin of Montville, New Jersey. Benay, born on April 2, 1961, passed away on August 18, 2026. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
Family, friends, and acquaintances remember Benay for her warmth, thoughtfulness, and the moments shared together. While she will be deeply missed, the influence she had on the lives around her remains. Loved ones will reflect on the time spent together. Benay’s memory will live on in the hearts of friends and family, a lasting reminder of the connections and experiences she brought to the world.
She was loved and cherished by many people including: her parents, Gerald Stolar and Miriam Stolar; her husband Howard; her children, Alex (Nonay), Lindsay Macolino (James) and Brett (Rachel); her grandson Noah Macolino; and her brothers, Lewis and Brian Stolar.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Eleventh Hour Rescue (https://www.ehrdogs.org) or Children's Health Defense (https://childrenshealthdefense.org).
