Joan Mary Oppen Obituary

We announce the death of Joan Mary Oppen in Old Bridge, New Jersey, who passed away on May 30, 2026, at the age of 92. Joan will be remembered by family members, friends, and others whose lives were connected in meaningful ways. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Eleanor Butula (Connolly) and Joseph Butula; her husband Elwood Martin Oppen; her sons, David and Paul Oppen; her siblings, Eleanor Conrad (Butula) and Joey Butula; and her nephew William Conrad.

She is survived by: her sons, Peter (Gloria Oppen) and Michael (Merlie Oppen); her grandchildren, Robert Oppen, Kimberly Oppen, Timothy Oppen, Susan Oppen, Catherine DiGregorio, Elizabeth Pogue, Benjamin Oppen and Michael Oppen; and her nieces, Carolyn and Ellen Conrad. She is also survived by numerous great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Salvation Army are appreciated.