John F Abair Jr. Obituary

Name: Visitation
Start: 2025-11-13T19:00:00
End: 2025-11-14T01:00:00
Location: Michael Hegarty & John Vincent Scalia Home For Funerals

In loving memory of John F Abair Jr. of Old Bridge, New Jersey, who departed this world on November 8, 2025 at the age of 57. John leaves behind a legacy remembered by family and friends. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

He was predeceased by: his aunt Betty. He is survived by: his parents, John F. Sr. Abair (Jack) and Letitia Abair (Letty); his friend Bill W; his wife Kathy; his children, Thomas, John and Amanda; his sisters, Susan and Janet (Lou); his grandson Bryson; his uncle Patrick (Georgianna); his aunt Kathleen McGovern; and his sisters-in-law, Doreen McMenemy, Kim Flynn (Kevin) and Dawn (Glenn). He is also survived by nieces and nephews, many loving cousins, and countless friends.

In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made in John's memory to https://www.clubserenityobnj.org.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Michael Hegarty & John Vincent Scalia Home for Funerals and Cremation Service

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November 11, 2025

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“I attended Bible Study with John at St. Ambrose. He was such a warm humble man. May he rest in eternal peace in the arms of Our Lord.”

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Nov 13

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Michael Hegarty & John Vincent Scalia Home For Funerals
3377 US-9, Old Bridge, NJ 08857

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Nov 14

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Immaculate Conception Church
18 South St, Spotswood, NJ 08884

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