Elaine Totten Obituary
The family announces the passing of Elaine Totten of Carmel, New York on October 9, 2026. Elaine, born on March 20, 1944, was part of many shared moments and relationships throughout life. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of Elaine Totten or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.
Elaine will be remembered for the time spent with loved ones and the moments that brought joy to those around her. Friends and family will honor Elaine by reflecting on shared memories and the positive influence she had in their lives. Though Elaine is no longer present, the bonds she created and the experiences shared will endure. Elaine’s memory will continue to be a source of comfort for all who knew her.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 13th 2026 from 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM at the Cargain Funeral Home - Carmel (10 Fowler Ave, Carmel Hamlet, NY 10512). A Mass of Christian burial will be held on Wednesday, October 14th 2026 at 10:00 AM at the St. Lawrence O'Toole Church (36 Prospect St, Brewster, NY 10509).
