Barry Kilmer Obituary

The family announces the passing of Barry Kilmer (Conklin, New York) on July 10, 2026. Barry, born on March 13, 1963, was part of many shared moments and relationships throughout life. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

Barry will be remembered for the time spent with loved ones and the moments that brought joy to those around him. Friends and family will honor Barry by reflecting on shared memories and the positive influence he had in their lives. Though Barry is no longer present, the bonds he created and the experiences shared will endure. Barry’s memory will continue to be a source of comfort for all who knew him.

He was predeceased by: his father Ian Kilmer; his stepfather Bradley Cole; and his son Nathan Kilmer. He is survived by: his mother Janet Cole; his wife Kim Kilmer; and his siblings, Randy (Maureen), Kevin (Diane) and Kelly (Kevin).

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that memorial contributions be made to a local church or Christian organization of your choosing.