Mary Ellen Ayer Obituary
It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Mary Ellen Ayer of Cortland, New York, who passed away at the age of 75, on December 25, 2025. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Mary Ellen Ayer to show support.
As we bid Mary Ellen farewell, let us not mourn the absence of her physical form, but rather celebrate the essence of her spirit that lingers in the spaces between moments. For Mary Ellen is not truly gone, but merely transformed, her energy intertwined with the fabric of the universe itself, forever dancing among the stars.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Joseph Heavey and Virginia Rowley Heavey; and her siblings, Bernard Heavey and Kathleen Cerrone. She is survived by: her husband Clarke Ayer; her sons, Kevin Ayer and Brian Ayer (Jason Seifer); her grandchildren, Dakota Ayer and Delaney Ayer; and her great grandchild Kali Jade Ayer.
