Evelyn "Amanda" Bailey's obituary , Passed away on September 1, 2026 in Irondequoit, New York

Evelyn "Amanda" Bailey

September 1, 2026

Irondequoit, New York

Evelyn "Amanda" Bailey's obituary , Passed away on September 1, 2026 in Irondequoit, New York

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Evelyn Bailey Obituary

We announce the death of Evelyn Bailey of Irondequoit, New York, who passed away on September 1, 2026. Evelyn will be remembered by family members, friends, and others whose lives were connected in meaningful ways. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Evelyn Bailey to pay them a last tribute.

Evelyn will be remembered for the impact she had on the lives of those around her. Friends, family, and colleagues will cherish their memories and the time shared. Those who knew Evelyn will remember moments of kindness, warmth, and presence. Though words cannot fully capture her life, the legacy of connections and experiences remains. Evelyn’s absence will be deeply felt by those who valued her companionship.

She was predeceased by: her husband Emera "Butch" Bailey; her siblings, Joseph Boggs and Anita Rothbart; and her parents, Yetta Kahn Rubman and John T. Boggs.

She is survived by: her children, Jennifer Varenka, David Varenka (Jessica Ong) and Daniel Varenka (Karen Stocks); and her stepdaughters, Suzanne Peacock (Robert) and Julia Gillespy (Mark). She is also survived by cousins, nieces and nephews, and adored grandchildren and great grand-children.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, October 10th 2026 from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM at the The Vesper (1 Capron St, Rochester, NY 14607).

In lieu of flowers, you may wish to make a donation to the Susan B. Anthony Museum & House (susanb.org), The Irondequoit Public Library Foundation, or another worthy nonprofit in her honor.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
James R Gray Funeral Home



Sat

Oct 10

Celebration of life

1:00 PM - 4:00 PM

The Vesper
1 Capron St, Rochester, NY 14607

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