Gerard Wilder's obituary , Passed away on September 17, 2025 in Malone, New York

Gerard Wilder

November 5, 1945 - September 17, 2025 (79 years old)

Malone, New York

Gerard Wilder's obituary , Passed away on September 17, 2025 in Malone, New York

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Rabideau Funeral Home

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Gerard Wilder

November 5, 1945 - September 17, 2025 (79 years old)

Malone, New York

Gerard Wilder Obituary

With solemn reverence, we commemorate Gerard Wilder of Malone, New York, whose life came to an end on September 17, 2025 at the age of 79, leaving behind cherished memories. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Gerard Wilder to show support.

He was loved and cherished by many people including: his parents, Charles Wilder, and Gwendolyn Wilder, Jr. (Wheeler); his wife Judy Wilder (Monette); his children, Donna Lange, Christopher Wilder, Tracy Paige (Christine), Joe Danussi (Tara), Jennifer Spellman (Ian) and Stacey Danussi (Matthew Garrand); his brothers, Frank Wilder (Janice) and Chuck Wilder; his grandchildren, Robert Banhart, David Dubois, Kellyann Wilder, Nicholas Wilder, Joseph Wilder, Stephanie Wilder, Christopher Paige, Natalie Danussi, Emily Nieves-Figueroa, Brookie Danussi, Carlie Danussi, Aubrianna Spellman, Demi Garrand and Cali Garrand; his great grandchildren, Lyla Rose Banhart, Abigail, Zane Banhart and Roman Banhart; his great great grandchild Vincent Anthony Banhart; and his grandson Anthony Banhart.

Donations in his memory may be made to a Veteran's charity of choice.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Rabideau Funeral Home



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Rabideau Funeral Home
5614 US-11, Ellenburg Center, NY 12934

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Rabideau Funeral Home Chapel
5614 US-11, Ellenburg Center, NY 12934

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