Debra L. Gay Obituary
We bid farewell to Debra L. Gay of Middleport, New York, whose journey of life gracefully concluded on December 5, 2025 at the age of 64. Debra touched countless lives with warmth and kindness, leaving behind cherished memories that will forever echo in hearts. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Amerigo "Pepper" Santillo and Dorotha "Nadine" Santillo (Mefford); and her mother-in-law Marcy Lou Gay. She is survived by: her husband Jeffrey Gay; her children, Kayleigh Ferra and Spencer Ferra; her granddaughter Brae Lynne DiLorenzo; her stepson Tyler Gay; her siblings, Diana Hogan and Michael Hogan (Sandy); her cousin Tina Oosterling (Scott); her nephew Jeremy Hogan; her father-in-law Allan Gay (Susan); and her sister-in-law Kathryn Lacefield (Danny). She is also survived by several nieces and nephews.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, December 13th 2025 at 11:00 AM at the First Presbyterian Church (522 Main St, Medina, NY 14103).
Memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society at http://www.cancer.org..
