Mary Lou (Tolen) Ray Obituary
The passing of Mary Lou (Tolen) Ray in Monroe, New York occurred on June 19, 2026. Mary Lou, born on December 5, 1938 in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, shared life with family, friends, and community. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Mary Lou (Tolen) Ray to show support.
She was predeceased by: her parents, James Tolen and Mary G. Tolen (Smith). She is survived by: her husband Robert Ray (Bob); her daughters, Linda Gramza (David) and Jen Donofrio (Patrick); her granddaughters, Jessica Owen (Scott) and Elizabeth Stanchus (Alysha); her great grandchildren, Haley, Jackson, Emma Owen and Mary; and her sister Sally Greevy (Richard).
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Mary Lou's memory to Monroe Community Hosptal Auxiliary (https://checkout.square.site).
