Verna M. E. Kilmer Obituary

It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Verna M. E. Kilmer (Red Hook, New York), who passed away on October 18, 2025, at the age of 86, leaving to mourn family and friends. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

She was predeceased by: her siblings, Lillian, Robert and Albert. She is survived by: her children, Debbie Tenore (Bart), Laurie DiFalco and Joseph DiFalco (Karen); her grandchildren, Candice Pretko (Justin), Seth Tenore (Megan), Christina, Angela and Amanda DiFalco; her great grandchildren, Reagan, Xander, Landon, Justus, Alana, Lucas and Hudson; her husband Robert Kilmer; her stepchildren, David Kilmer (Kelly), Theresa Davis (Ray) and Stephanie Leedy (Mike); her grandchildren, Conor, Nicolas, Tristen, Kelly and Jessica; her siblings, Arthur Choinsky (Saskia), Raymond Choinsky, Ralph Choinsky, Vivian Kime, Linda Blum (Joseph) and Sandra Daley; and her siblings-in-law, Barbara Choinsky (Albert) and Robert Hilbrant (Lillian).

Memorial Donations can be made in Verna's honor to: St. Judes Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105.