Sylvia H. Flender Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Sylvia H. Flender (Rochester, New York), who passed away on November 12, 2025 at the age of 101. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
In the hush of twilight, as the stars twinkle in silent homage, we reflect on the legacy Sylvia leaves behind and her impact on the lives of her loved ones. Though Sylvia may no longer walk among us, her spirit lives on in the memories held dear by her family and friends, a guiding light that illuminates their paths in times of darkness.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Anna Singer and Israel Singer. She is survived by: her daughters, Maddy Gainen (Howard), Joan Flender (Andy) and Barbara Flender. She is also survived by eight grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of one's choice.

November 18, 2025
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