Robert Edward Wheeler Jr. Obituary

With solemn hearts, we announce the passing of Robert Edward Wheeler Jr. (Victor, New York), whose presence will be deeply missed, having departed on September 22, 2025. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

As we bid Robert farewell, let us not mourn the absence of his physical form, but rather celebrate the essence of his spirit that lingers in the spaces between moments. For Robert is not truly gone, but merely transformed, his energy intertwined with the fabric of the universe itself, forever dancing among the stars.

He was loved and cherished by many people including: his wife Kathie Wheeler; and his children, Brian Wheeler, Tamara Markese (Andrew), Randy Wheeler (Deedee) and Tim Wheeler (Angela).

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made to Honor Flight Rochester in Ed's memory. Please use this link to donate: https://honorflightrochester.org and include "in memory of Ed Wheeler" in the description.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Jarmusz Cotton Funeral Home

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September 26, 2025

Mo V wrote a sympathy message

“Ed Wheeler… Sir … A mans Man.. Leader and Mentor… thank you and Cathy for welcoming me and mentoring me as i breifly worked at the Voluntary Services Office in the Canandaigua VA Medical Center you were my guide as I transitioned to the civilian world after my military service. Team Wheeler helped renew my faith in humanity by demonstrating, kindness, leadership, commitment to family, and Voluntarily helping others …”

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