Amy Rumsey-May Obituary
We announce the death of Amy Rumsey-May of Wallkill, New York, who passed away on August 16, 2026, at the age of 71. Amy will be remembered by family members, friends, and others whose lives were connected in meaningful ways. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Amy Rumsey-May to pay them a last tribute.
Amy will be remembered for the impact she had on the lives of those around her. Friends, family, and colleagues will cherish their memories and the time shared. Those who knew Amy will remember moments of kindness, warmth, and presence. Though words cannot fully capture her life, the legacy of connections and experiences remains. Amy’s absence will be deeply felt by those who valued her companionship.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Joseph Lilly and Florence Meredith Lilly; and her son Cody. She is survived by: her husband John R. May Jr.; her daughters, Sasha Bucala (Christopher) and Taylor Rumsey (Louis); her granddaughter Shelby Bucala; and her brother Neil Lilly.
Memorial contributions in Amy's name can be made to Walden Humane Society (https://waldenhumane.org).
