James Allen DeSilver Obituary

We are sad to announce that, on January 1, 2023, at the age of 85, James Allen DeSilver (Norman, Oklahoma) passed away. Family and friends can send flowers and condolences in memory of the loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of James Allen DeSilver to pay them a last tribute.

He was predeceased by: his wife Ruth Meradith Hardy; his sisters, Virginia Vandevier and Donna Gilliam; and his stepson Paul Hardy. He is survived by: his former wife Kay Wayland of Chandler; his children, DeAnn Gatlin (Terry) of Lawton, Debi DeSilver of Rush Springs and Jay DeSilver (Lee Ann) of Lawton; his grandsons, David Mabry, Daniel Mabry and Doug Mabry; his sons, Matt Terry and Jacob Terry; and his stepson David Hardy (Angie) of Norman. He is also survived by 13 great-grandchildren; four great-great-grandchildren.