Patricia "Pat" Self's obituary , Passed away on February 4, 2026 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Patricia "Pat" Self

December 10, 1956 - February 4, 2026 (69 years old)

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Patricia "Pat" Self's obituary , Passed away on February 4, 2026 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Vondel Smith Mortuary

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Patricia "Pat" Self

December 10, 1956 - February 4, 2026 (69 years old)

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Patricia Self Obituary

With solemn reverence, we commemorate Patricia Self (Oklahoma City, Oklahoma), whose life came to an end on February 4, 2026 at the age of 69, leaving behind cherished memories. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family.

As Patricia departs from this earthly realm, her essence lingers — a whisper on the wind, a ripple on the water — a testament to the enduring power of love to transcend the boundaries of life and death. Though Patricia may no longer walk beside us, her spirit lives on in the memories and the legacy Patricia leaves behind.

She was predeceased by: her parents, William Halford and Georgia Halford; and her brother Dennis Halford. She is survived by: her husband Freddie Self; her daughters, Avery Carpenter (Dustin), Amanda Self and Heather Tittjung (Stefan); her sister Terri Hunter (David); and her grandsons, Braxton Carpenter and Anthony Tittjung.

Visitation was held on Friday, February 6th 2026 from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at the Vondel L. Smith & Son Mortuary South Lakes (4000 SW 119th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73173). A funeral service was held on Saturday, February 7th 2026 at 10:00 AM at the South Lakes Chapel (4000 SW 119th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73173).

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Vondel Smith Mortuary



Fri

Feb 06

Visitation

Vondel L. Smith & Son Mortuary South Lakes
4000 SW 119th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73173

Sat

Feb 07

Funeral service

South Lakes Chapel
4000 SW 119th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73173

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