Betty Lou Elder Obituary
It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Betty Lou Elder in Tulsa, Oklahoma, born in Higginsville, Missouri, who passed away on November 7, 2025, at the age of 93, leaving to mourn family and friends. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
In the quiet moments of reflection, let us honor Betty's memory by embracing the beauty of each fleeting moment, knowing that her spirit resides in the eternal tapestry of existence, forever woven into the fabric of our hearts.
She was predeceased by: her husband Donald James Elder Jr.. She is survived by: her stepchildren, Eddie Elder (Lynne), Todd Elder (Jill), Eric Elder and Donna Barkley (Phil); her cousin Emory Crain; Keith and Brian Crain. She is also survived by her ten grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren.
A funeral service was held on Wednesday, November 12th 2025 at 10:00 AM at the Memorial Park Cemetery Chapel (5111 S Memorial Dr, Tulsa, OK 74145).
