Betty Carol Gaines Obituary
The passing of Betty Carol Gaines (Tulsa, Oklahoma) occurred on August 30, 2026. Betty, born on August 9, 1938, shared life with family, friends, and community. Family and friends can send flowers and/or light a candle as a loving gesture for their loved one. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Betty Carol Gaines to show support.
Betty touched many lives and will be remembered fondly for the moments shared and the memories created. Family, friends, and colleagues extend their love and support during this time. While Betty’s presence will be missed, the influence she had on others will remain. Those who knew her will carry forward memories that reflect her character and spirit.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Jay Dee and Nancy A. Phillips (Allread). She is survived by: her daughters, Debra Elsheimer (Ronnie) and Terri Manning (David); and her grandchildren, Dustin Crow (Nicole), Stacey Fulps (Tyler), Casey Crow (Christian), Curtis Crow, Garrett Chapman, Austin Chapman, Heather Monterusso (Chris) and Brent Elsheimer (Shea). She is also survived by fifteen great-grandchildren and numerous nieces, nephews, and a wide circle of friends.
A graveside service was held on Thursday, September 3rd 2026 at 10:00 AM at the Memorial Park Cemetery (5111 S Memorial Dr, Tulsa, OK 74145).
