Fred Elder Obituary
The passing of Fred Elder (Tulsa, Oklahoma) leaves a void in the hearts of many, as we bid farewell to a loving soul who departed on July 26, 2025 at the age of 90. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Fred Elder to show support.
As we bid farewell to this cherished soul, solace is taken in the memories held dear — the laughter shared, the wisdom imparted, the moments of quiet reflection in their presence. Though Fred may no longer walk among us, his spirit lives on in the echoes of his kindness, the warmth of his embrace, and the light of his enduring love.
He was predeceased by: his parents, James Elder and Gertrude Elder; and his wife Barbara. He is survived by: his friend Tom Flynn. He is also survived by his sister-in-law and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.
His beloved wife Barbara preceded him in death on July 23, 2020, during the Covid epidemic.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to the Fred Elder Recital Series or the Organ Fund at Boston Avenue Church, or to the Tulsa Symphony Orchestra in honor of Fred and Barbara.
