James Elmer Steelman Obituary
With sadness, we share the passing of James Elmer Steelman (Tulsa, Oklahoma). James Elmer, born on January 1, 1951 in Spiro, Oklahoma, passed away on July 21, 2026. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
Family, friends, and acquaintances remember James Elmer for his warmth, thoughtfulness, and the moments shared together. While he will be deeply missed, the influence he had on the lives around him remains. Loved ones will reflect on the time spent together. James Elmer’s memory will live on in the hearts of friends and family, a lasting reminder of the connections and experiences he brought to the world.
He was predeceased by: his parents, George Steelman and Thelma Steelman (Shahan); and his brothers, Jim Steelman, Jack Steelman, Coke Steelman and Dale Steelman.
He is survived by: his sons, Shawn and Joshua; and his sisters, Josephine McLaughlin, Trish Reed and Wilma Ruth Pitkin.
