John J. Tay's obituary , Passed away on January 31, 2026 in Etters, Pennsylvania

John J. Tay

June 9, 1961 - January 31, 2026 (64 years old)

Etters, Pennsylvania

John J. Tay's obituary , Passed away on January 31, 2026 in Etters, Pennsylvania

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MUSSELMAN FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICES, INC.

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John J. Tay

June 9, 1961 - January 31, 2026 (64 years old)

Etters, Pennsylvania

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John J. Tay Obituary

With solemn reverence, we commemorate John J. Tay of Etters, Pennsylvania, whose life came to an end on January 31, 2026 at the age of 64, leaving behind cherished memories. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of John J. Tay or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.

As we bid farewell to this cherished soul, solace is taken in the memories held dear — the laughter shared, the wisdom imparted, the moments of quiet reflection in their presence. Though John may no longer walk among us, his spirit lives on in the echoes of his kindness, the warmth of his embrace, and the light of his enduring love.

He was predeceased by: his father Thomas E. Tay; his husband David Shaeffer; and his brother Kevin C. Tay. He is survived by: his mother Geraldine M. Tay (Keenan); and his brothers, Andrew G. Tay (Beth), Michael E. Tay (Nancy), George I. Tay and Charles J. Tay (Stephanie). He is also survived by many nieces, nephews and grand nieces and nephews.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
MUSSELMAN FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICES, INC.



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