Ruthmary Zupan McIlhenny Obituary
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Ruthmary Zupan McIlhenny (Gettysburg, Pennsylvania), who passed away on March 19, 2026 at the age of 72. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
As we bid farewell to this luminous soul, let her loved ones carry forward the torch of her memory, illuminating the path ahead with the warmth of her love and the brilliance of her spirit. Though Ruthmary may journey beyond the horizon of our sight, her essence remains woven into the very fabric of our being — a guiding light in the darkness, a beacon of hope in the night.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Frank Zupan and Ruthmary Zupan Westermeier. She is survived by: her husband Robert B. "Mac" McIlhenny; her sisters, Kim Hurt (Doug), Amy Munier (Scott) and Heidi Hines (late Charles Hines); her stepson Andrew McIlhenny (Amy); and her stepgrandchildren, Ava and Asher. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews.
Please remember Ruthmary in your own way or with a gift in lieu of flowers to: the Dwight D. Eisenhower Society, the ARC of York and Adams Counties, the Adams County Library, Historic Gettysburg-Adams County Preservation Society (HGAC), or the Land Conservancy of Adams County.
