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Mrs. Judith Ann (McCarvel) Harder

November 10, 1935 - January 7, 2021 (85 years old)

Danville, Virginia

Mrs. Judith Ann (McCarvel) Harder

November 10, 1935 - January 7, 2021 (85 years old)

Danville, Virginia

Judith Ann (McCarvel) Harder Obituary

Judith Ann Harder (nee McCarvel) passed away on January 7, 2021 after a brief illness. She was surrounded by family.

Judith was born to the late Joseph and Ruth McCarvel in Anaconda, Montana on November 10, 1935. She was the oldest of eight children in the household. She graduated from Anaconda Central High in 1953, then proceeded to earn a degree from Carroll College School of Nursing in 1956.

While in college, she met Robert Harder and later married in 1957. After marriage, the couple moved to Chicago, then to Alexandria, Virginia. Judith worked as a geriatric nurse for several years until she left to raise her four children: Eric, Theodore, Paul, and Robert. The couple later divorced after more than 25 years of marriage but remained good friends.

Judith traveled a great deal in her life, living in places such as Kill Devil Hills, NC, Scottsdale, AZ, and Arlington, VA. Her travels led to different career choices including bookseller, real estate agent, correctional facility nurse, and insurance claims reviewer. She eventually retired in Gloucester, VA to be closer to her family.

Judith enjoyed spending time with her family. She loved traveling to visit her siblings for reunions. She loved the times she spent with her sons, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren. She loved to cook but enjoyed going out more. And, if encouraged, she would play “Lady of Spain” on her concertina. And she was always ready with a warm hug and a bright smile to all who visited.

Judith was preceded in passing by her ex-husband Robert Harder, her son Eric Harder, her grandson Steven Harder, and her siblings Francis McCarvel, Linda Walters, Mark McCarvel, and William McCarvel. She is survived by her sons Theodore Harder of Gloucester, VA, Paul Harder of Williamsburg, VA, and Robert H.B. Harder of Danville, VA. She is also survived by three sisters: Susan Sherman of Gig Harbor, WA, Kathleen Nims of Portland, OR, and Ruth Quigley of Las Vegas, NV. Judith is also survived by nine grandchildren and one great-grandchild.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions, the family will be holding private ceremonies to remember our Judith. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Benedictine Sisters of Virginia (https://osbva.org).



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January 14, 2021

Brendan Harder lit a candle

“In loving memory of Judith Ann (McCarvel) Harder: We grandchildren will not forget our Grandee. She was as bright as the Sun itself and as strong a support as the fundament that held it. I will cherish the memories of the time after my graduation from college, when I briefly went to live with Judith; every day was an adventure and a chance to grow. Her memory will go on as we live each day in a manner that would make her proud.”

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January 12, 2021

Beth Harder lit a candle

“To remember my dear mother-in-law, Miss Judy. She adored her sons, grandchildren, and family, and made the times we spent together special. She will not be forgotten.”

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January 11, 2021

Juliana Hunt lit a candle

“I will most remember Aunt Judy’s glamorous nature and animated story-telling. She was the kind of woman who lit up every room she entered. I light this candle to honor the warm memories she created.”

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January 11, 2021

Paul Harder lit a candle

“In loving memory of Judith Ann (McCarvel) Harder, my dearest mother. Our memories will live on through our family. Always in our heart, Paul, Anne, Alex and Vicky”

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